So, you find yourselves at a
crossroads. Except it's not so much a crossroads, as it is the heart
of a labyrinth, and not only do you not have a map, you have to be
out by nightfall. You know where you are, and you know where you want
to be, but you don't know which path to take, and time is ticking
away.
I may have overextended the metaphor. |
That's essentially how I felt after
leaving University. I had a solid idea of the
sort of jobs I wanted, but no real idea how to translate the skills
and experience I'd been accumulating for the past three years into
gainful employment. Perhaps, like me, you've just left – or are
about to leave – University. Maybe you've spent the last
few years working instead, and now you've a good idea of the sort
of roles and industries you enjoy, you want to switch from paying the
bills to pursuing a career. You may even be going in the opposite
direction! After spending a few years in employment you may feel like
you're just treading water, and now you're wondering if a degree will
prepare you to re-enter the workforce, reinvigorated and ready to
break through to the next level.
If you're anything like me, it's one hell of an overwhelming place to be in your life.
Not, like, Kristen Stewart overwhelmed. Like, real overwhelmed. |
It's so difficult
to know where to start, and so easy to make a misstep. Personally,
the fear of making a wrong decision often prevents me from making any
decision at all. What if I hate this job? What if I love it, but I
don't get the experience I wanted? All the time invested in that job
would be wasted. I could try a vocational course, but what if I
decide I don't enjoy it? What if it doesn't actually help me find a
job? Time and money down the drain.
What helped me to
tackle this – and what could help you too – is a plan. A map for
the labyrinth of life, if you like. So, sit down with a pen and
paper, and think: This is where I want to be in a year – how do
I get from here to there? Lay it all out, in the simplest of
terms. By the time I turn 25, I want to be ready to make the move to
London. So, I'll need money to support myself, which means I need to
start saving. However, once I'm in London, I'll need to earn money,
too. I'll need to find a job, and to be reasonably certain of
managing that I'll need experience.
Fortunately, I can
be accumulating both of those at the same time.
I need to find a
job, then. What sort of job? I don't want to move to London just to
clean toilets – so what do I want to do? I've known for a
long time that I want to get into the writing industry – either as
a writer myself, or on the publishing side of things.
Now we're getting
somewhere! I know I need a job, and I know what sort of job I want.
I'm still a ways off employment, though. What sort of experience do I
need to get, then? Well, administrative experience – or anything
office-based, really – would be useful. Now I've worked that out,
those “is this really the right job...?” doubts don't nag too
much; after all, it doesn't matter too much if it's not the ideal
job, because it's only a stepping stone towards bigger and better
things.
Hold up, though! I
said I wanted to work in the writing industry, and experience of
working in an office environment might be necessary, but it ain't
sufficient to get me through the door. Actual writing experience
could do it, though. How do I go about building a portfolio, and
developing as a writer?
Hey – one of
those 'blog' things might be a start...
It might seem like
a comparatively minor thing, but a plan like that, laid out in plain
black and white, can be a surprisingly powerful tool. It can keep you
grounded when you're feeling overwhelmed; it can give you something
to feel positive about when you feel like you're treading water; it
can give you a clear list of tasks and objectives when you're feeling
lost at sea.
A plan isn't the
be-all and end-all but it is a step in the right direction, and lays
out the path for future progress.
Oh, and in other
news, I now write a book review for Yuppee Magazine. The
Charity-Shop Book Review aims to bring to your attention all
those overlooked treasures that wash up on charity-shop bookshelves,
and updates on the first Tuesday of every month (so the first review
– Annie Proulx's Close Range – is already up). Make sure
to follow @DaneCurel as well, to be sure you aren't missing out on
any other forgotten favourites.
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