It's all about spinning plates.
It is also, confusingly enough, about
knowing when to stop spinning plates.
I'm a quitter by nature. It's a part of
my character I've grown to dislike, which in turn has given me a
dislike of quitting – which sounds great and all, but I know from
experience that it's very easy to become overwhelmed. Our
circumstances and responsibilities are constantly changing, and
unless you're able to make that call and drop the less important
or relevant responsibilities, you'll soon end up with more plates in
the air than you can handle.
How do you make that call, though? I
mean, sometimes activities and hobbies are important precisely
because they're not important
– that is, we have to have our down-time. We have to have a little
time in the day when we can put it all aside, and just do something
for the pleasure of it.
Otherwise you pay out the nose for a bathroom re-fit and someone ends up frozen to death in a hugely-elaborate hedge maze. |
Other times you
will have to be callous and calculating, put sentiment to one side,
and really weigh the value of the things you spend your time on.
Habits are, by their nature, things we do without thinking, but it is
important to take stock occasionally - to ask yourself if you're still
getting from your routine whatever it is you used to get that made it
habit-forming in the first place, to ask if the money spent and time
invested could be put to better use in the future.
Anyway, the long
and short of it is that I'll be restructuring The Grown-Up Game
once again. I've been in two minds over this, as it's not so long
ago that I tried shaking things up the first time. Am I giving up
too early? I thought; perhaps I need to stick it out.
But if it's not working, it's not
working, I'd respond, and I
don't think it is. It shouldn't make too much of a difference on your
end – it's really more internal stuff: developing a clearer
structure; greater breadth of content; articulating my aims; that
sort of jazz. Regardless, consider yourselves warned.
Until
next week!